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What Will You Be Doing This Mother’s Day?

Mothering Sunday is days away.

A chance to spoil our Mums if we are lucky, or remember them and all the good times they gave us if they are no longer with us.

But its also a time for us to get spoilt too!

Even if its only breakfast in bed, time to relax in a bath full of bubbles, read a good book in the garden or buy ourselves a new outfit.

Its the simple things in life that mean the most!

If you’re a MUM it’s time for YOU!

U COME FIRST

You not only deserve this time for yourself but your child does too.

 ‘You’ are the most important person in your child’s life.

Anyone who has ever flown on an aeroplane will be familiar with the safety drill, where the Stewardess asks you to make sure you put on your own safety vest and masks, before your children’s or anyone else’s.

Taking care of ‘You’ is a priority because if you don’t, then you won’t be able to care for your child or anyone else.

Yet many of us selfless Mums still think it’s ok to put the needs of others, especially our children’s, before our own.

We are not being selfish by taking care of our own needs before anyone else’s, it’s essential.

If we take care of our own needs and wellbeing and pursue our own interests, then not only our own happiness, health, and success will be positively affected but noticeably our children’s too.

Nothing beats a good book and a bath!

A happy Mum, equals a happy, contented child.

That’s why, we should never neglect or underestimate the importance of time for ourselves.

LET’S BEGIN

And there’s no time like the present!

We needn’t wait for Mother’s Day, right now is as good a time as any to begin. So, before we go any further grab a notebook, pen, and a cuppa and let’s start our U Time now by taking some time to reflect on how we would like to spend our special day this Sunday?

As they say;

‘No plan is a plan to fail!’

So, let’s write down some ideas and make it a concrete promise to ourselves.

Who else wants time just for themselves to;

  • Have a bath?
  • Read a book or magazine?
  • Watch a Film or Box Set?
  • Enjoy a glass of wine?
  • Go out for a meal?
  • Visit the cinema or an Art Gallery?
  • Go for a massage, manicure, facial or acupuncture?
  • Have a new Hair Style?
  • Go for a Makeover?
  • Take up a new hobby?
  • Start an Educational Course?
  • Write, Paint, Play an instrument or sing?
  • Work out at the gym?
  • Meditate or try Yoga?
  • Participate in a sport?
Relax it’s YOUR Special Day!

There are so many ways to make your day special, so start dropping those hints to your partners or children (if they are old enough) now. Give them time to arrange a treat you really want, because they know you’re worth it.

If you don’t have anyone able to treat you, then go treat yourself now.

Make that appointment, order that book, enrol in that course, or book that table for you and a friend.

MAKE EVERYDAY SPECIAL

U time doesn’t have to be reserved for special occasions such as Mother’s Day though.

We can make our whole life more enjoyable, if we use our time doing things that we like and want to do.

If we’re honest, doing anything other than that is a waste of our precious time.

It’s pointless only ever enjoying time for yourself just because its Mother’s Day, and enduring 364 days of tending to the needs and desires of everyone else.

It’s like living for the weekend to arrive or our summer holidays, in order to relax and be happy.

This just robs us of the opportunity to live and enjoy life to the fullest.


It’s living less than half a life.

Let’s meditate on that for a moment.

If we could only plan our lives like we do Christmas or our summer holidays, then all that attention to detail, time, energy, money, and motivation to make it good, would create a fabulous life.

Decide now not to reserve those fun times for special occasions, celebrations or holidays.

It’s about enjoying and appreciating every day, including those ordinary boring days like today, when nothing extraordinary or special is happening…. just your life!

Your time is the present, Happy Mother’s Day!

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY HOLLY

where have those fifteen years gone????

We can all remember that moment we brought our first-born home from hospital.

I remember that snowy February day, my husband Paul putting the car seat down in the middle of the living room, and us both staring at our new arrival Holly, for what felt like hours.

We were just in awe of her.

Scared and anxious at the same time.

All those fears surfaced.

How would we cope?

What do we do if she cries?

How will we know what she needs?

When?

And why?

What if we don’t know how to be good parents?

Now on her fifteenth birthday, as a Mum, I feel so proud, privileged and happy to have come this far. To have learnt so much. But more importantly, to love and feel loved by such a smart, wonderful, funny, kind and crazy, beautiful daughter.

The pride and love I feel for her every day are overwhelming. Making that difficult birth and all those doubts and fears pale into insignificance.

Yes, even the toddler tantrums and teenage angst has been worth every minute.

So much so, I feel saddened that she is growing up way to fast, and I long for those baby days back.

Yes, children change your life in many ways, but always for the better.

It may be hard to imagine now when you’re in the thick of dirty nappies and sleepless nights, but it’s in those ordinary moments together, that one day, you’ll linger with your memories longing to go back.

One day in the not so distant future, those dreaded night feeds, school runs, class assembly’s, duvet days and trips to the dentist, will become the best moments in our lives.

Today they are ordinary every day events. Tomorrow they’ll become the most extraordinary, priceless, irreplaceable nuggets of time, in our lives. Time that all too often we take for granted because we are disillusioned that the work and worries that occupy our mind, are the things that need our attention the most.

Yet, neither now nor in the future will anyone or anything, ever bring us the joy, fulfilment or happiness that our children do.

Happy Birthday Holly Love Mum & Dad xxx

Stay Present

Your Child is the Present~ Enjoy the Gift!

Hi, welcome and thanks for joining the Happy Childcare Club!

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton

My name is Emma Grant.


I’m a proud Mum of two beautiful children, Auntie to 9, Godparent to 10 and Registered Childminder to many!

You could say I’m blessed to be surrounded by little people?

For the past 15 years, alongside my husband Paul, I have been privileged to look after many wonderful, unique, children. And work with some amazing parents.

That’s why I’m so passionate about, helping parents and children to consciously connect with one another. Helping them to enjoy their time in the Present Moment together, while appreciating the Gift of Parenthood, we’ve been blessed with.

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I’m also a Hypnotherapist, Coach, Nutritional Therapist and keen Writer, with an interest in the Spirituality, Self help, Personal Growth and Development fields.